We live a somewhat uprooted life. At
the moment, we are lucky enough to live at home in Tulsa, close to
friends and family. But I have no illusions about Eric's job. Most
likely, we will move at least once over the course of our lives
together in order to accommodate his lifestyle. Moving across the
country is not anything new to me; I just moved back “home” from
Chicago, after all. But that was for school, and I always grew up
knowing that I would live away from home in order to get a degree.
Moving away from home as an adult for a job is a relatively new idea
for me. I never imagined that I would live away from my parents and
siblings; it was never something I desired.
But as we settle into Eric's job at
ExpressJet, it's a reality that I'm not only accepting, but I'm
growing more and more comfortable with. You see, living across the
country from my family used to seem isolating and scary. But living
across the country with Eric seems exciting and full of possibility.
And as we have promised each other to spend as much of this life
together as possible, moving has become an opportunity for our
(upcoming) marriage to flourish.
To remind myself of these things, and
to remind myself of what unconditional devotion means, I created and
hung this piece of art on our wall, right next to where Eric's
suitcase sits when he's home. I designed the text, then downloaded a
free banner and printed the whole thing on cardstock. The backing is
scrapbook paper, and I got the frame at a garage sale for $2.
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